WHAT’S WRONG WITH TODAY’S TEENAGERS?

“Nobody understands me.” These famous words have probably been spoken by all teenagers – or they have filled their thoughts – no matter what the culture, race or creed of the youths. In most cases, they are uttered in frustration because of confrontation with authority, be it with a parent, guardian, a teacher or some other adult. It is amazing how quickly adults forget their teenage years and the struggles of their journeys through that frightening no man’s land called adolescence.

The teenage years are probably the most difficult time of life because they are critical period of transition when the individual moves through the stormy waters and the rites of passage from childhood to adulthood.

In case you haven’t noticed, this world is out of order and the purpose and meaning of life is apparently unknown. Although the problems of today actually have a simple solution, humans are too “smart.” They spend their time creating their own inventions rather than returning to the Maker and asking Him for the specifications on which life should operate.

Something is indeed wrong with our world. If you were to ask for my opinion, I would have to tell you that this world is a mess in general and specifically a mess in regards to teenagers.

Why are the youth doing the things they do and behaving the way they behave? Some of them have lost the respect the used to have for the elderly. When was last you saw a teenage give his seat to an elderly in a bus? Some people in our society are alarmed at the level of violence among teenagers and they keep asking “Why?” The values presented to teenagers everyday leads them further away from God’s design and not coincidentally, toward suicide, AIDS and death. At one time it was a real scandal for a single young lady to not be a virgin. Now it is almost a crime to be one. Although teenagers can choose and make their own decisions about their futures, the world they meet is weighted against their future success. Some young people drink alcohol, hit coke, smoke, while others discover the tragedies of AIDS, teenage pregnancy and abortion. Of course even though young people may be victims of circumstances, that does not mean you are bound by those circumstances forever. There is a better way, if you would choose to find it.

Broken People Produces Broken Families Which Produce Broken Teenagers – Whose Fault?

Many teenagers do not know and understand what a family is. They grow up in a number of relationships which do not give any clear indication of stability. Some families have one parent, some have two, some have revolving mothers or fathers. Divorce is often a discussed reality among the youth. It seems majority of teens today grow up in households that are either single-parented or dysfunctional. It can’t be strange for teenagers to consider suicide when they live in a world where they are not exposed to the real truth, while in some cases some of them want to run away. Wouldn’t you if you were in their shoes?

Today’s Teens
 
A lot is wrong with today’s teenagers. They are more violent, sexually active at earlier ages, have less respect for parents and elders, and are more likely to drop out of school due to so many problems. Of course, this does not apply to all teenagers because there are still a number of good ones. These are the facts of life. However, when trying to unearth what is wrong with today’s youth, we need to look at today’s parents.

Parents today work more, spend less time with their children and more likely to divorce and remarry several times or are single parents, and are one of the primary causes for the state of their children. Whatever you as a parent do and however you live, some if not all, of your children will end up just like you. Parents must realize that children often take what exists in their parents and add to it. Parents should be careful how they live in front of their teenagers.

To one who knows the bible, it is obvious that this world is not functioning in the way it was designed. It is out of order. This world has been and continues to be out of order. God never designed the mess we are in now. It seems to me that alcohol kills more people both directly and indirectly than any other drug. We put a warning on cigarettes, which help people kill themselves, but don’t put a warning on alcohol which kills more. So if cigarette are banned, what will happen to alcohol?

If a child is raised without a father or mother, chances are he or she will grow up deficiently and produce offspring that grow in the same manner and with the same result.

What is wrong with today’s teenagers is what all adults are. The picture may be shocking, and it is. But does that mean there is no hope? I think there is a solution.

Has A Generation Been Lost?

 Even though the picture I have just painted actually exists today, a generation of youth has not been lost. We have and are losing many, many young people, but we have not lost a generation. We refuse to accept a disconnected society. We searched for and found the truth in a Book and in the life of the Author of the Book. A new and bold generation is rising up today. We have a purpose; we have goals in life; we refuse to bow down to “idols”. There are still some Daniels, Shadrachs, Meschachs and Abednegos, Davids and countless others who would rather burn than bow. They are convinced they will not have to burn because they know God is on their side and if He is for you, who can be against you?

Yes, a lot of young people have been lost, but this generation has not been lost. God always has a people who know the truth – young and old, rich and poor, bold and beautiful – who have already decided that they will make the \difference. These young people have learned about their purpose for living. They have developed a relationship with the creator. They have determined their destination and know what it takes to get there. They have examined the facts and concluded that Jesus is the answer that God knows better than they know themselves and that if they follow His commands, they will have true success.

Reference:  TALK TO ME....by Myles Monroe

ALVARO ADVERTISING ASSIGNMENT

I Remember when i was in school....this was what my advertising lecturer made us do for the semester. To advertise the Alvaro passion fruit flavor. it was indeed tedious, doing things some of us haven't done before. but at the long run, it helped us. we were divided into groups and had to roam through the whole of Osu to get a location to take pictures for the advert.
It wasn't easy at all. it took us the whole day to get the pictures and later get a graphic designer, an expert to help us package the document to fit the requirements of our lecture.

we were lucky to meet the deadline for submission and the only problem we had with our work was with the DROP....it had to look bigger to catch the eye of the consumer.

25 WAYS To look TEN Years YOUNGER without surgery

1. BROW GEL is your best friend. It brushes the brows upward and keeps them that way. Just keeping your brows in place fakes youth.

2. DRESS YOUR AGE, not your shoe size. “If you have o ask, ‘Is this something my daughter would wear?’ then you shouldn't be buying it!” exclaims 10 Years Younger host Jorge Ramon. “Put the sparkle miniskirt down! Attitude conveys youth—not clothing.”

3. SHINE ON. “Mix a tiny amount of the fine shimmer powder in moisturizer,” says Victoria’s Secret makeup artist Linda Hay. “It immediately brightens and evens he complexion, taking years off.’

4. AVOID THE 80S. “If you’ve been wearing powder or ice-blue shadow, say bye-bye”, admonishes jordy Poon of Rita Hazan Salon in NYC. “A lot of women think it helps bring out the blue eyes, but the overkill can age you. Instead, modernize with navy blue eyeliner.”

5. GO WHITE! “The fastest way to look 10 years younger is to whiten your teeth,” advices celebrity aesthetic dentist Dr. jonathan B. Levine. “Eat foods that naturally whiten your teeth, like apples, celery and spinach”

6. CHANGE YOUR WORKOUT routine with short reps and more sets. “It keeps you fresh,” says Brendan Comer, a trainer at. NYC’s Peak Performance

7. WEAR CLOTHES THAT FIT! I’ve seen moms who are exhausted reaching for the dreaded ‘Mom’ tee and sweatpants,. He warns: “This adds pounds and years to any frame. Wear clothing that fits your body.”

8. HOLD IT IN. From Spanx to Soma, there are options for everyone. It’s not a size issue—it’s about having the confidence to wear clothing that’s youthful without worrying about lumps and bumps. “You’ll feel like a teenager when you see how good you look!”

9. GIVE ‘EM HEEL. “Wearing a fabulous shoe with some height will put a youthful spring in your step and extend the leg. Even kitten heels or a wedge can help a gall feel years younger.


10. UNDERSTAND YOUR UNDERWEAR. “A good bra” - hello! When was your last fitting? - “and undies will help you look younger by making the clothes look better on your body. They are foundations, but it’s what you build your entire look on.

11. FALL INTO PATTERNS. “Add color pattern to your wardrobe and stay away from head-to –toe black,” So many women fall into a rut thinking black is slimming. Look for jewel tones in shades that flatter your skin tone, and florals, which add youthful energy.

12. BE CAREFUL WHEN GOING BRUNETTE “Dark colors accentuate wrinkles”, IF you do go dark, make sure your color is multidimensional. A flat dark color will age you.


13 YOUR EYE BROWS are the windows to your soul. “Make sure to pay attention to your brows , Perfecting your eyebrows creates an instant eye-lift, glow playfulness. If I had a dollar for every time I heard a woman say, ‘I look so young, I’d be rich!’


14. “AYUR-MEDIC skin—care products give you a beautiful, youthful glow. The DNA Repair Serun is the best kept secret in Hollywood.”

15. BE NATURAL. Having overly polished hair can bit more natural will wipe years off. To get this look, try to wave spray like Fekkai Coiff Oceanique Tousled Wave Spray.

16. DEFY GRAVITY. “One of the pitfalls of aging is when everything starts to sink downward,” .To keep your butt toned and youthful, try these moves: Lie on a mat with your feet flat on the floor, tighten your butt and raise your hips to the ceiling. Hold briefly, and repeat!’

17. HIGHTAIL IT. “The ponytail is like an instant face-lift,” It pulls your face back and silhouette your cheeks. They have a really youthful furl to them.

18 . SUIT YOUR HAIRSTYLE TO YOUR LIFESTYLE. “Rarely is there a situation when we can ‘wash and wear,” “We have to commit time on ourselves, even just five minutes.”

19. GO FOR FRINGE. An easy way to look younger is to add bangs, Whether they are heavy and blunt, or light and wispy, bangs instantly soften the face.”

20. BEWARE OF TOO MUCH BLUSH! “Less is more. You should look as if you aren't wearing blush,” says Roberts. “I like Benefits Georgia Peach— it works on all skin colors.”

21. GET GLOWING! “A little natural sheen on the cheeks gives a youthful glow, so dont matter that area with loose or pressed powder.

22. GLOSS IS GOOD! Put a soft gloss on top of a lipstick. Mette lipsticks are drying, aging and look harsher. Use a gloss that doesn't stick!”

23. HIGHLIGHTS ARE AGE LIFTING. Having some lighter highlights around your face can brighten it and add movement to your haircut

24. DO A CLEANSE! “You should periodically do a raw-juice cleanse. You will be amazed at what it does for your skin and eyes

25. GET AN INSTANT FACE-LIFT. “Take small sections of hair by the side of your temples and braid then away from the face. Then, split your hair at the crown and pull both braids from either side and tie them together underneath the separated hair.

Credit: NYC’s Peak Performance, Crystal Washington is the lady in the the lime green suit

THE GREAT SEX DIET

‘Women who regularly eat chocolate have higher levels of desire’

IF YOUR LUST LIFE’S ON THE WANE AND YOUR PASSION NEEDS REIGNITING, DON’T FRET. TRY THESE LIBIDO-LIFTING FOODS TO PUT SEX BACK ON THE MENU AND HELP YOU LOSE POUNDS TOO.

SIX PASSION CLINCHERS
Sexy superfoods are sure to get you and your partner in the mood. Choose three items from this list each day:

ALMONDS
Almonds will ignite your passions as well as helping your man produce healthy sperm. They’re packed with vitamin E, also known as the ‘sex vitamin’ because it boosts blood flow to both male and female sex organs. How much? 12 whole almonds (20g)- 122 calories.






CHOCOLATE
Great news! Women who regularly eat chocolate have higher desire levels of desire and gain more satisfaction from sex, according to an Italian study—as if we needed an excuse ! Chocolate also contains phenylalanine, which boosts libido as well as your pleasure hormones, producing a similar feeling to falling in love. How much? Four squares good-quality dark chocolate (25g) - 132 calories.







GINGER
Spice up your meals and your sex life with a bit of ginger. It will improve blood flow to your sexual organs and help heat things up between the sheets. Its also a good source of libido-lifting vitamin C, zinc and magnesium. How much? A 1cm piece of fresh ginger—two calories. Or four pieces of crystallized ginger—50 calories.





GARLIC
Experiments have shown that garlic opens up blood vessels and increases flow to the sex organs. So who needs Viagra? How much? One garlic clove a day—three calories. But don't forget to brush your teeth before puckering up with your man!


PUMPKIN SEEDS

These sexy seeds are packed with essential fatty acids and zinc, plus they’re a good source of magnesium—vital for arousal and orgasm as it helps your muscles relax . Try scattering them over salads or cereal. How many? 1 tbsp(10) - 57 calories





OYSTERS


Some say it’s their appearance that makes oysters such powerful aphrodisiacs—as they resemble female sex organs. But they also contain D-aspartic acid and NMDA, powerful chemicals that trigger the release of sex hormones , plus lots of zinc, which ups your man’s sperm count (helps baby-making) and gets him in the mod. Prawns and sushi are good, too. How much? 12 oysters—78 calories.

Communication as a Tool For Good Health

• How patients must communicate with their doctors.




As a communications student who has come to understand the power of communication as a tool for solving most of societys problems, I have decided to do some research into how effective communication can help solve our health needs. Most medical practitioners profess that a carefully taken history of a patient alone could lead to a correct diagnosis. About 80 percent of the time. However, getting an accurate history is usually easier said than done. With some patients, telling the doctor exactly what the problem is becomes an issue of reluctance. And of course, many doctors, whether because of temperament or time constraints, don't pursue the patients account as aggressively or even listen as attentively as they should.

Here are a few things you should tell you doctor during an office visit and how you should tell it:
Tell why you are there. If you have more than one reason for the visit, make a list in advance so you don't end up forgetting an important question. Try to be specific when describing each problem. Saying something hurts foe example is not enough. You need to describe when the pain began, exactly what it feels like, whether it comes and goes and what makes it better or worse.

Tell it as it is. Don't trivialize your complaints or your doctor may do the same. Don't attribute problems to normal aging especially problems involving depression, dizziness, forgetfulness or sexual dysfunction, there may be an underlining, treatment disorder-at any age.

Always try to present your problems in a focused manner, without flitting from one symptom of complaint to the other. Doctors are good at butting in quickly-on average, within 20 seconds after you start talking, according to one study. Avoid rumbling which invites interruption. However if your doctor interrupts anyway, don't forget to pick up the thread where you left off, check your list to make sure you fully cover one problem before going to the next. Also make room to tell your doctor about the drugs you take (both prescription and over-the-counter drugs). Bring all the medications you may no longer need or that might interact with other drugs. Make sure your doctor knows about any recent drugs reactions you may have had, including allergies or side effects.
According to doctors, your risk for many serious diseases including cancer, coronary heart diseases and diabetes are greatly influenced by your family medical history. Be sure to keep your doctor informed about any recent illness or deaths in your family.

Finally when all is told, know that of course good communication with your doctor involves a two way communication. So ask lots of questions and be a good listener. Take notes or bring a tape recorder or a second set off ears. Then, to make sure you heard correctly and increase the chance that you will remember, repeat what your doctor just told you just like you do when a class ends in school